Actually I really understand... a dry period when every one else is winning feels like it goes on forever! When that happens to me I try depositing small amounts, and cashing it when it doubles... like 20 doubles to 40, stick it in my ewallet, then I have 2 20 deposits for the next day.... eventually you're gonna run into a big winner that really adds ups without feeling like you're broke and frustrating...
Also I get the good feeling of actually hitting the cashout button - may be only psychological, but it changes my thinking which helps me a lot....
Good luck to you both, I hope to see some posts here soon from you!!